And men say women are hard to understand! I’m gonna break it down – at the end of the day, women are simple! They want to be wanted (Cheap Trick said it), appreciated (thank you and I love you are needed every now and then) and for men to be honest (although not always easy, it is the best policy). What we don’t want is to be on a never-ending rollercoaster of emotions and stuck analyzing “where is this relatinoship going.”
Enter Katy Perry’s “Hot N Cold” song, which I like to think was released to pretty much sum up the guys I’ve recently dated. Take into consideration the lyrics:
'Cause you're hot then you're cold
You're yes then you're no
You're in then you're out
You're up then you're down
Guys, take it from me…this little “yo-yo” game you play is not fun for anyone (and shame on you if you’ve been on the receiving end before because you know it sucks)! So here’s where the honesty part comes in – if you like the girl, don’t play games. If you don’t, don’t play games. We’ve all seen “He’s Just Not that Into You” and we know how it goes. No one should have to ride the relationship rollercoaster or waste any time questioning your intentions. We know “you don’t really want to say no, YOU! but you, really don’t want to go-go.” Trust me though, eventually we catch on to your “case of a love bipolar” and we’re done.
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